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The Shmuz List in Numeric Order
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#1 Eternal People
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Isn't it amazing that century after century, after so many repeated attempts to slaughter them, to destroy them, to wipe them out as a people, the Jewish People are still here, and her enemies aren’t? She has withstood the test of time. Having lived through Crusades, the Spanish Inquisition, Blood libels, pogroms, persecutions, mass murders, and finally Genocide. If ever there was a means devised...
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#3 Yom Kippur – The power of Teshuvah
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Using the event of Eliezer Bar Dudia gaining the title of “Rebbe”, we are introduced to one of the greatest acts of teshuvah ever achieved by a human. We witness a human rise from the depths of depravity to the heights of spirituality in the course of a few hours. Through the story of his life, we see what a man accomplished in but a day -- and we are brought to a new appreciation of how great...
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#4 Appreciating Olam Hazeh
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If a person looks at the features of this world they will quickly see that Hashem invested great wisdom and care in making man’s stay on the planet enjoyable. From the different foods, each one with its unique flavor, aroma and textures; to the colors of flowers and magnificent seascapes -- so much of the beauty of this world was not necessary. It is clear that Hashem put much thought into...
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#5 Appreciating our Wealth
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Never in the history of man have so many people enjoyed so much material wealth and possessions. The average tax paying citizen of today enjoys riches and comforts that kings of yesteryear couldn’t envision or imagine -- and yet it seems that we don’t appreciate what we have. We become so accustomed to the extraordinary wealth we possess that we no longer think of it as riches; we even start...
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#6 Its not Geneivah, it’s Shtick
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It is very difficult for us human beings to accept that we do things that are wrong, and so we rationalize. We create illusions and fanciful stories that we ourselves don’t believe. And so, you will find intelligent, otherwise rational people saying things like, “Of course I wouldn’t steal, stealing is dishonest, but this isn’t stealing .It’s “shtick”. We “mach shtick”. We “mach Shtick” with the...
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#7 Noach: Understanding Belief
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By all accounts Noach was a Tzadik. Yet he didn’t go into the teivah until the water forced him in. Rashi tells us the reason was that Noach “Believed and he didn’t believe”. Whilst he knew that Hashem was going to bring a mabul, he still doubted it. What seems perplexing is that Hashem spoke to Noach telling him there would be a flood. Not only that, but Noach had spent the last 120 years...
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#8 Power of Prayer
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We all daven, and on some level we know that Davening works. But do we really understand it? Do we really understand that our prayers have an effect on our lives? Do we really understand that my davening can change the circumstances of my life?
This Shmuz helps us understand the profound effect that tefilah can have on situations and settings that directly affect our lives....
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#9 Akaidas Yitzchak
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After all is said and done, what was so great about the Akeidah? Throughout history many people have been called upon and have made great sacrifices. Yet this single act echoes through the millennia. What was so unique about what Avrahom did? What was so special about the way he did it? And more pointedly, what relevance does it have for us some 3,700 years later?...
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#10 Questioning G-d: Finding and keeping your Bashert
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The Shadchan says, "So tell me, what are you looking for?" And, out comes the laundry list.
"I need someone who is extroverted, funny, and outgoing."
"I need a woman who is very frum, good, kind, tolerant, and funny."
"I need a guy who is tall, a take-charge type, strong but not headstrong."
And unwittingly, many people make the first...
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#11 Kibud Av of Eisav – Appreciating Parents
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Of course we appreciate our parents. Of course we respect them. Isn’t that only natural? Doesn’t everyone? And yet we don’t. We live in a society that doesn’t seem to know the meaning of the word respect. There is no respect for authority, no respect for institutions, no respect for elders, and even no respect for ourselves. Unfortunately, we are affected by this, and this lack of respect goes...
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#12 People of Principle
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We know the Avos and Imahos were great individuals -- but what made them so great? Where did they get the moral courage to see what was right, and stick to it against all external pressures?
Through the famous story of Rochel giving up her husband to her sister Leah so as not to embarrass her, we are introduced to some of the basic ingredients that shape any great person’s success – the...
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#13 Free Will – Part 1: Nefesh Habahami, Nefesh Hasichli
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Has there ever been a time when you reacted to something, and you couldn’t believe that it was you who was speaking that way? Have you ever said something and had a feeling of, “What came over me – it was as if I were possessed?
In this introduction to the inner workings of the human being, we come face to face with the understanding that I am created from very diverse elements. Within me...
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#14 Living like a Rock
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What if I just live my life, as any other occupant of this planet? What is so bad about that? Let’s say, I am no worse than Joe the UPS driver, or Bob the mechanic, will Hashem really be upset with me?
In this Shmuz we are brought to understand how great the human is, and how much he can accomplish. Within the context of this understanding the question of “What am I accomplishing with my...
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#15 Chanukah G-d fights Our Wars
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What actually happened in the war to recapture the Bais Hamikdash? How many battles were fought? How long did they last? What was it like living in Yerushlayim at the time?
Detailing the story of Chanukah as brought in Megillas Chashmonaim, this Shmuz brings us closer to understanding the events of the time, and appreciating the miracle that unfolded. It then takes us forward in time to...
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#16 Olam Habba: The Greatest Motivator
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Alan Dershowitz, in his book “ The Vanishing Jew”, describes that as part of a course he taught in Harvard Law school, one of his co-professors decided to rate G-d. They decided to sit in judgment of Hashem, to determine how good a job He did when He created this world. Their conclusion? They found much good, much wisdom and forethought, but they also found much suffering and pain, needless pain....
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#17 Acquiring Olam Habba The Easy Way – “Everyone needs a Mike”
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We spend our life trying to gain Olam Habbah. All of our learning, all of our chessesd, all of our davening, is directed towards creating “what I will be forever”. Yet sometimes it seems that we work harder and not smarter towards our goal.
In this Shmuz, we are introduced to a simple method to dramatically increase our portion in Olam Habbah- a smarter way....
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#18 The Difference Between Emunah and Bitachon – Four Levels To Emunah
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Did you ever notice that no one does anything wrong? It seems that no matter how clear it is to you and me that this person is engaged in self destructive behavior, he doesn't admit that he is doing something wrong or harmful; rather he comes up with an entire rationale why it is good and in fact proper.
To allow for Free Will, we humans had to be given this ability to rationalize away our...
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#19 Free will - Part 2: I Never Do Anything Wrong
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In this introduction to emunah, we are presented with four basic levels of belief: 1. Hashem created the world. 2. Hashem is involved in the really big picture issues - war, famine, life and death. 3. Hashem knows my inner thoughts. 4. Hashem is intimately involved in my day to day life. After outlining and defining the levels, we are given practical techniques to improve our level of belief in...
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#21 Choosing a Career
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It is clear that Hashem wants man to work for a living. But is there a particular profession that I should I be doing to make a living? Does the Torah have a formula for me to figure out exactly what line of work I should pursue? Using the system explained by the Chovos Halevovos we are given clear directions towards finding the right way for me to earn my living.
(Essential hashkafa for a...
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#22 Evolution - Does it Make Sense?
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To many of us the issue of belief in the Creator boils down to logic against faith. As if from a purely rational, intellectual point of view it would appear that the world evolved, and we who believe have to hold on to our faith against the onslaught of logic and scientific discoveries.
In this Shmuz we are asked to look at matters from a very different vantage point, namely: that which...
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#23 I’ll never die. Not me. No way.
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While this may be philosophy’s greatest question, isn’t
it something that any thinking person must answer: “What
is my purpose in existence”? Drawing from The Path of
the Just, this Shmuz focuses us on finding the true
meaning and purpose of our life.What is my purpose
in life?- What are my true core values?
- What
does it mean after death I will live on? I will be dead!
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#24 Understanding Life Settings
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It almost seems as if some people are born with a silver spoon in their mouth, while others are destined to suffer. Why is it is that some people are born with amazing capacity, and others are created so simple? Why is there autism in the world? Why Down Syndrome? If in fact God is just, why not mete out talents and abilities in an equal manner to all people?
Using the backdrop of a...
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#25 They don’t make anti Semites like they used to
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Over the course of history, it seems that there has been no shortage of anti-Semites, people who truly hate Jews and would do anything in their power to put an end to the “Jewish Problem”. Yet it also seems that if you ask the common anti-Semite, why is it that you hate the Jew? Likely, he wouldn’t be able to answer. I know that you dream about their demise- but why? What is it about them that...
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#26 Loshon Horah – Squandering our Olam Habbah
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Of course loshon horah is forbidden. We know it was the prime cause of the destruction of the Bais HaMikdash, and of course we know that we aren’t supposed to speak it--yet we do. A big part of the reason is that we don’t really see it as wrong, we don’t see it as damaging, and we certainly don’t see the act of speaking as something that will cost us in the future.
This Shmuz is a powerful...
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#27 Respecting the Institution – America the Beautiful
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We live in a world of disrespect. Children don’t respect parents. Students don’t respect teachers, spouses don’t respect each other and I certainly can’t respect a President or world leader who gives in to his every passion and whim.
In this Shmuz we find that Torah has a very different understanding of respect, and who is worthy of respect. We are introduced to the Torah’s concept of...
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#28 People Believe what they want to Believe
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If Hashem would just show me one miracle, then I would really believe. If Hashem would just show me one clear sign -- it would change my life. This premise that seeing a miracle would make a person believe is brought into sharp relief by one central question: Why didn’t the ancient Egyptians believe in Hashem? They experienced all of the greatest miracles ever shown. They lived through the...
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#29 The Busy Generation
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While we boast of more labor saving devices that ever before in history, It seems that we are busier today than we have ever been. In fact, we are so busy that we don’t even have the time to ask ourselves what is that we are so busy with.
This Shmuz focuses us on attitudes and perspectives that we pick up from the society in which we live – attitudes that may be against what the Torah views...
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#30 Anger Management
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We all know that anger is bad and if we have ever gotten into a situation where we lost our temper, we certainly wished that we hadn’t --but what can I do? This is the way I react. He said something, I saw red and exploded. That is just my nature. I didn’t ask to be born this way, and there is nothing that I can do about it. Right?
In this Shmuz we are introduced to the motivation and the...
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#31 The Voice Inside
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Have you ever heard of something called a guilty conscience? What about a Jewish guilty conscience? While we all recognize that “Voice Inside”, that seems to moralize and lecture to us when we have stepped over the line, we assume that this is just one of those things that we have to sort of ignore.
In this Shmuz we are brought to understand that “Voice” that HASHEM put inside every human...
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#32 Understanding Nature – Putting the “WOW” back into Nature
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Who can look at a sunset and not say “Wow, look at the beauty of this world.”? Yet, it seems that we rarely do that. It is almost as if we are detached from the natural world -- As if the world of lions and tigers and bears is a place reserved for taking our children to when they are little, but has no connection to our lives.
The Rishonim tell us that the surest way to come to understand...
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#35 Hashem and Man: Master and Servant (Understanding Humility)
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We know the Torah gave us a specific mitzvah - to work on our character traits, but how do I change my very basic, underlying emotional makeup? Much like as with any character trait, I didn’t wake up in the morning and say, “I just want to be a big, fat, arrogant buffoon”. I didn’t wake up and say, “I would like to consider myself the most important human on the planet – G-d's gift to humanity....
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#36 For the Love of Money
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“I heard he’s worth 10 million dollars”, is not so uncommon an expression for us to hear, even within our own community. The reality is that to many people, their self worth is equal to their net worth. While we assume that our values come exclusively from a Torah Perspective and not from the world around us, the reality is that the world we live in has a real effect on our thoughts and attitudes....
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#37 Three Types of Miracles – The Fifth Level of Emunah
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Hashem created this world. Hashem orchestrates this world but there is another dimension of Hashem’s relationship with this world -- Hashem is the maintainer of this world.
A very deep Shmuz that deals with the way that HASHEM interacts with this world, and directly deals with some fundamental questions: • How I can have free will, when HASHEM knows what I am going to do?- • How can...
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#38 Where is Hashem – The Sixth Level of Emunah
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We are trained from our school years to say boruch Hashem and im yirtzeh Hashem. Yet it seems that something is lacking. While we mouth the words that Hashem is responsible and we thank Hashem, if we are honest with ourselves we will soon recognize that what is lacking from our sentiments is Hashem. The sense of Hashem’s presence and involvement in our life that we talk about is what is missing...
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#39 I Need, Needs
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It is clear that Hashem is capable -- very capable. It is also clear that Hashem has great wisdom -- enough wisdom and capacity to create the cosmos and all that it contains, with words alone -- from galaxies that stretch over billons of light years, to tiny amoeba that float in a sea of flotsam, all parts of the whole, all harmoniously integrated, all so seemingly perfect. Yet Hashem created man...
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#40 Acher – The Importance of Torah – Founding an Organization
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Elisha Ben Avuha was one of the greatest Torah scholars who ever lived--He was a tanna, a great Torah teacher, and the rebbe of Rebbe Meir -- until he became Acher, the Heretic. In that state he undid all of the good that he had accomplished, and did things that were purely evil. Yet, when he died, he wasn’t allowed into “Gehenom”, because of the merit of Torah until his student, Rebbe Meir,...
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#41 Rebbe Akiva and Rochel – Potential of the individual
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At the age of 40, Akiva the shepherd went off to learn and transformed himself into the Torah giant known throughout history. We all know the basic story line, but we may not know that he promptly quit and set back home -- a failure. One event changed his life and gave him the strength and fortitude to turn back and succeed. Detailing the events of Rebbe Akiva’s struggle, the story of sacrifice,...
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#42 Tricks of the Soton
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Chazal tell us that Hashem created a malach whose sole
job it is to trip up man -- to get us to sin, to get us
to fail, to get us to mess up. Where is he? -
What voice does he speak with?
- How can I identify
him?
For most of us, without direct guidance from
chazal it is difficult to quantify and identify the soton.
Does he speak in my head? Whose voice does he use? How
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#43 Soton out of the Box
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It seems that it should be easier now to grow than in any previous generation. We have wealth, luxuries, freedom from oppression, and we have time. We enjoy so many time saving devices and conveniences that it would surely seems that we are finally free to sit and learn. And in fact, it seems that we should be able to reach great heights - and yet it is harder than ever to serve Hashem. It seems...
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#44 Bar Kamtza - Do you really have Free Will?
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I accept that each person’s life span is set before they are born. I also accept that the question is visited on Rosh Hashanah when Hashem decides who will live and who will die. All that is fine and well, until I pick up a gun and say to myself, can’t I decide to end that person’s life? Isn’t it obvious that whether that person will live or die is now in my hands?
Using the Tisha B’Av...
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#45 WYSIWYG- Developing Willpower
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It’s true that I’m not quite where I hope to be one day. It’s even true that there are many thoughts that go through my head that I’m not proud of. I am still selfish and self centered, and there are many things that I feel that I would be deeply ashamed of if anyone else knew about them. But it’s OK, because one day I will change.
This Shmuz focuses us on the shocking realization that as...
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#46 Greatness of Man- Beyond our understanding
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Chazal teach us that HASHEM would have created the entire world for one man: the sun, the moon and the stars, the planets and constellations, the oceans, the rivers and the birds -- all for one human being. The question is what exactly is so great about man? What is so fantastically meaningful and significant about one man that it was worth creating all of heaven and earth just for him?
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#47 Cognitive Restructuring
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The last of the Ten Commandments is “You shall not covet”. Simply stated one should not be desirous of his neighbor’s property, possessions or any attribute that he may have. On the face of things this seems to be a very difficult mitzvah to observe. If my neighbor has something that is beautiful, he owns a magnificent home, he drives a beautiful car or has a fantastic job, isn't it human nature...
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#48 Being a Nice Guy
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Most people we meet are “nice guys”. If you were stuck on the road, or if you needed a place to sleep they would be the first to come forward and offer to help. Yet these very same people do things that really aren’t nice-- in fact, sometimes downright cruel. The question is why? Why is it that people who are kind and sweet, do things that are so unquestionably mean?
Oftentimes the...
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#49 Yom Kippur- The Capacity of a human
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Nachum Ish Gam Zu, one of the greatest Tanaim who ever lived, was a complete Tzadik. Yet, at one point in his life, he made a minor mistake, and from then on suffered terribly. When he explained to his students that it was because of this minor oversight that he was suffering they said to him, “Woe to us, that we have to see you this way”. He responded, “Woe to me, if you didn’t see me this way”....
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#50 Bitachon – Learning to Trust HASHEM
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Part one of a three-part series on Bitachon, this Shmuz focuses us on the first stage of Bitachon: learning to trust HASHEM. Amazingly the Chovos Halevovos explains to us that by nature we trust. In fact, without trust we couldn’t function. If we didn’t trust, then every time we left our home we would fear death by a car crash, an earthquake, or a tornado. Every time we entered into a business...
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#55 Staying Pure in an Impure World
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