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#53 I Hate Criticism
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“You’re always late.” “Why can’t you ever be neat?”
“You bounced another check, what’s wrong with you”…
It seems that whether we are dealing with children,
parents, siblings, coworkers or employees, there is
so much that needs improvement, that we can’t help
but comment. In fact, these lines slip out of our
mouths so easily, that often we don’t even know
we are saying them! Of course, we only say them in
the hope of influencing behavior and affecting change –
Yet they never seem to work. For some strange reason,
not only don’t these comments cause people to improve,
they seem to backfire.
In this Shmuz we are brought to focus on the
concept that, not only is criticism counterproductive,
it actually eats away at the root of all successful
relationships- that sense of trust and approval that
we humans so crave.
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