People Believe what they want to Believe

 
     
 

ספר שמות פרק יד

כא) ויט משה את ידו על הים ויולך ידוד את הים ברוח קדים עזה כל הלילה וישם את הים לחרבה ויבקעו המים:

And Moshe lifted his arm over the sea, and HASHEM split the sea with an eastern wind all night, and He made the sea dry and the water split.

רמב"ן על שמות פרק יד פסוק כא

כא) ויט משה את ידו על הים ויולך ה' את הים ברוח קדים וגו' היה הרצון לפניו יתברך לבקע הים ברוח קדים מיבשת שיראה כאלו הרוח היא המחרבת ים,

 כי בעבור זה חשבו אולי הרוח שם הים לחרבה, ולא יד ה' עשתה זאת בעבור ישראל, אע"פ שאין הרוח בוקעת הים לגזרים לא שמו לבם גם לזאת, ובאו אחריהם מרוב תאותם להרע להם

זה טעם וחזקתי את לב פרעה ויבאו אחריהם, שחזק לבם לאמר ארדוף אויבי ואשיגם בים:

Ramban- It was the will of HASHEM to split the sea with an eastern wind so it would appear as if the wind split the sea into partitions. Because of this, the Mitzrim thought that perhaps the wind made the sea dry, and it wasn’t the hand of HASHEM doing this for Yisroel. Even though the wind doesn’t split the sea into partitions, they didn’t pay attention to this and chased after the Jews because of their tremendous desire to harm the Jews.

 
 
 

Mitzraim, the nation that bragged that no slave had ever escaped their land, stood by helplessly as the Chosen nation triumphantly left. The Jewish people, now some 3 million strong, marched through the desert surrounded on all sides by clouds that protected them, led by a pillar of cloud that lit up the night as if it was day.

 

Yet even at this moment, Pharaoh sent spies along to follow them. After three days, his agents reported back that the Jews had veered off course. Pharaoh called out to his people, “Let us reclaim that which is ours,” and he led them in pursuit. 

 

When the Mitzrim arrived on the scene, the Jews were camped out against the Yam Suf. With the sea against them and no place to move, it seemed certain that the Mitzrim would recapture them. At that moment, the cloud of fire that led the Jews moved to the back of the camp and separated the Mitzrim from the Jews. That entire night, both camps stood in their places separated by the clouds of glory.

 

The Ramban tells us that an eastern wind began to blow - this was the wind that split the sea. At first it made small indentations in the sea, but as the night wore on, the wind became stronger and those small indents grew in size and depth until the sea itself was split into 12 distinct pathways - ready for each Shevet to cross in its own channel. 

Why split it with an Eastern wind?

The Ramban explains that HASHEM split the sea with an eastern wind “so that it would appear as if the wind split the sea into partitions.”

 

How could the Mitzrim possibly believe the wind split the sea?

This concept is very difficult to understand. How could the Mitzrim possibly think that it was the wind that split the sea? In fact the Ramban himself says, “even though the wind doesn’t split the sea into partitions.”

Understanding free will

The answer to this question seems to be predicated upon understanding the concept of free will. Free will doesn’t mean a theoretical ability to do good or bad - rather a practical ability - where either side is possible.

 

As an illustration: Do I have free will to put my hand in a fire? In theory I do. I could do it. But I never would. It is damaging to me, and so while in theory I have free will to do it, on a practical level I don’t.

Creating man

Chazal tell us that HASHEM created man to give him the opportunity to shape himself into what he would be for eternity. That molding of the person is accomplished by choosing that which is good and proper and avoiding that which is wrong and evil. By making these choices, man is given the ability to form himself.

To give man an even playing field, HASHEM put the Sechel -that pure, brilliant part of me - and inserted it into a body filled with drives, passions, and hungers, and He integrated the two. Now I don’t want only what is good and proper and noble. I also desire things; I hunger for many things. So my choice of doing only that which is good is now not so simple.

However, if HASHEM created man only out of these two parts, the Sechel and the guf[MH1] , the purpose of creation would never have been met. The wisdom of man is so great that it would be almost impossible for him to sin. Since every sin damages me and every mitzvah makes me into a bigger, better person, my natural intelligence wouldn’t allow me to sin, no matter how tempted I might be. I would clearly recognize it as damaging to me. Much like putting my hand into a fire, in theory I would have free will to do it, but on a practical level, I wouldn’t.

Imagination – its role and function

Therefore, HASHEM added one more component to the human: imagination, the creative ability to form a mental picture and sense it so vividly, so graphically that it is as if it is real. Ask anyone who has ever cried over a novel whether imagination isn’t a powerful force.

 

Now armed with imagination, man can create fanciful worlds at his will, and actually believe them. If man wishes to turn to evil, he can create rationales to make these ways sound noble and proper- at least enough to fool himself. If he wishes he can do what is right, or if he wishes, he can turn to wickedness, and even his brilliant intellect won’t prevent him - because he is now capable of creating entire philosophies that explain how the behavior he desires is righteous, correct and appropriate. Now man has free will. 

People believe what they want to believe

The reality is that people don’t believe that which is factual, proven and true - they believe what they want to believe. And while there are countless examples of this, one of the greatest manifestations is the Mitzrim following the Jews into the Yam.

 

Despite living through the Makkos, despite seeing the Yam split into sections, they didn’t believe it was a miracle. They attributed it to the wind because that is what they wanted to believe.

Understanding this can help us relate to the real challenge of belief - honesty. There are many reasons why a person won’t want to accept what his mind tells him is true. He has to be able to put away all other issues and focus on this one question: what do I think is the truth? Forget the consequences. Forget my agenda. Is there a Creator of this world? Logic will bring them to see the hand of God. However, if he isn’t honest, then nothing in the world will convince him, not the greatest miracles, not even the splitting of the Yam Suf itself.

For more on this topic please listen to Shmuz #18 People Believe what they want to believe

 

 

 
                                        
     
     
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
   
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